The Little Things, that can change everything


When we thought that remarks are just remarks, then we are wrong.

When someone makes a remark, he/she is cautioning/reminding us to do better, or not to do it

again.

Because at times when we take it for granted, that it means nothing, it actually means something

of importance.

Because the person wants to tell you how he/she feels.

What if we don't listen? Then the person will just keep quiet since he/she has been telling us

umpteen times what he/she like/dislikes. Soon, we will eventually regret what he/she said,

because by the time we realised it, there may not be any turning back.

Because he/she knows that there's no point in trying to change us, since we don't listen.




Not all will ignore remarks. Some will not even notice and rebut that they are not what like

they were being remarked.

Since we don't even think that we are like how people see us after so many reminders,

what's the point of changing ourselves just to make the person believe when you don't even

noticed it in the first place?


We have the right to rebut back ONLY if we really are NOT what the person said.


Because the whole point is that, they want you to notice it,

not rebut back when you really are like that.


This is not about complaining, or flaring up over small matters.

Its about letting us know how people may feel, or how weird people can be.

We have to treasure the little things.

Don't regret like me